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Dearest Lilly

We all know that I read a lot of blogs. I read them to see what other bloggers are writing. I also read them to see the types of comments people make about them. Today, while I was blog trawling, I came across the following comment relating to educating kids with disabilities in America.

‘Why do we even bother paying for education for these kids?’ wrote a commenter named Lilly. ‘Their parents chose to have kids and now their disability and special needs amount to a rise in taxes. Their parents just get a lawyer and fight and fight until the school district ends up paying for special programs. Why? Why not divert the funds for gifted and talented students instead of kids who will need societal support their whole life.’

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When I was Young

It’s just dawned on me, I’m getting old. In fact there are two generations below me that are already out of nappies … and I’m more than old enough to be both married and a mother. As I type, I am having visions of an old oak tree, creaking as it falls over and dies.

I’ve just read another person’s blog post; she is about ten years younger than me and also has cerebral palsy. Her post was about her school experiences. Not only did it make me realise that I’m on my way over the hill, it made me think about how the experience of living with cerebral palsy differs according to your generation.

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Fully Accessible Detention

There is somewhat of a stereotype – one that I’ve discussed here before – that people with disabilities are angelic and can do no wrong. We can.

Here are some examples from my high school years:

In year 7, I spent the whole of a religious studies lesson talking. I never was much for a deity and, well, the only reason any of us went in the first place was that we had this young student teacher … he was training to be an Olympic athlete. We all developed an appreciation for theology that year. Anyway, I had been talking in class and so, at the end of the lesson, he made me stand in the corner for fifteen minutes. Hello? I’m in a chair. What kind of punishment is having to sit and stare at him for an extra fifteen minutes?

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School Reunions

My ten year school reunion is coming up and with it the memories.

What was school like for me? Until I hit high school I was a novelty. People wanted to keep me company, they wanted to push my chair or be the one chosen by the teacher to help me out.

But high school (with the exception of my ‘second’ year 12 – more on that later), with its mixture of hormones and peer pressure, was mostly painful and lonely.

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